by Lenz on February 25th, 2014, 6:38 pm
.Just Keep Swimming, Just Keep Swimming
The title for this post was obviously a Finding Nemo reference, but I have a more serious topic to discuss right now and it happens to revolve around pushing yourself to do what you want to do. And not giving up although you may face challenges and difficulties along your way.
Do you know how long it took Marlin to find his son? It never really mentioned it in the movie, but I'd say it was a long time, maybe several days or more. The one thing he had was determination.
Definition of determination (n)
de·ter·mi·na·tion
[ di tùrmi náysh'n ]
1. firmness of purpose: firmness of purpose, will, or intention
2. fixed purpose: a fixed purpose or resolution
3. act of discovering something: an act of finding out or ascertaining something, especially as a result of investigation or research
synonyms: strength of mind · willpower · resolve · purpose · fortitude · grit
This can often be confused with motivation, but within logic, the two can easily be compared and can often go hand in hand.
Definition of motivation (n)
mo·ti·va·tion
[ motə váysh'n ]
1. giving of reason to act: the act of giving somebody a reason or incentive to do something
2. enthusiasm: a feeling of enthusiasm, interest, or commitment that makes somebody want to do something, or something that causes such a feeling
3. reason: a reason for doing something or behaving in a particular way
synonyms: incentive · inspiration · drive · enthusiasm · impetus · stimulus · spur
Marlin wasn't a strong fish and that's why he needed to have a partner. We all need friends to help us through hard times. It just isn't healthy, nor is it really that safe to be alone in the world. You always need someone to look out for you when you can't look out for yourself.
Marlin kept searching for his son for long hours of the day and never once did he quit until the two were reunited again. He faced so many troubling situations that would have given him enough reason to stop his search, but he never did.
I think Finding Nemo was a very inspirational, not to mention wonderfully animated and plotted, movie for everyone of any age.
Now to put it into personalized text I will just have to ask a few questions. Have you ever been criticized beyond belief that it almost made you cry? Have you ever been looked down upon like you were worthless and insignificant to others? Have you ever been faced with a tough decision and felt like backing out of the entire ordeal was the best way? Have you ever quit something because it became too hard?
Yes, well I have a different answer for you. No. You should never do this. Given that some things are different for others and everyone has a different tolerance to different things. Everyone handles things differently. Some people shut down when facing problems and other push on through as if they can rule the world. That's all okay; it's all normal. We're all human here.
But I want to urge that you need to come out of your bubble of safety and try new things, experiment with your life and 'push your boundaries' as that picture mentioned above. It's important to discover who you are and not try to be someone you aren't by following what the next guy in line is doing because it's 'safe'.
I guarantee you'll get yelled at and you'll cry and you might feel like what you're doing isn't worth all of that, but in the end it always is. It's just a matter of making it there that counts.
Keep on trying!
-Lenz .
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Lenz on March 21st, 2014, 6:49 pm, edited 1 time in total.