by Fiachra on March 21st, 2016, 7:25 pm
What do I add to Miz with my few little IC posts?
An absolute understanding that there are people behind the characters and empathy.
I see time and time again on sites like this people get treated badly. I am happy to say it happens less on Miz than some other places. The writers are as a whole amazing human beings.
I will write with anyone. I will do whatever interest them, I will find a way for my character to be there. I will come up with stories or plots to try and hook them if necessary. I will volunteer for every quest so that someone is taking part and justifying the work the mods put in, but I will also find a newbie and try and talk them into going, if it's full I'd swap with them. I guess technically I count as a newbie here, but I've been writing a long time, so I forget to think of myself as one.
I don't take IC personally. OOC I try and remember that I don't know people. That I don't know what's going on in their lives. Maybe this is the only positive thing they have, and someone coming down on them and making this not fun or safe, maybe that takes away their last bit of hope. I've known kids like that. So I try not to just tell people they're wrong or stupid. I try to give them chances. I explain things, I give them resources they need. I forgive and I try and treat everyone respectfully because that's what I think people ought to do.
Mostly what I bring is just myself. I have fun, and I think if you are having fun, other people will have fun with you.