Hey newbie, use spell check a bit more...
You'll find a lot of players are pretty well situated in their own immersive roleplays or with others, so don't get distressed!
Now you've pretty much done all that I have as well in terms of trying to find someone interested, but again, we're left undiscovered.
Take this opporuntity to do some flashbacks, solo threads, or moderated threads to flesh out your charater more beyond the CS. Take the descriptions from the CS and put them into action. By doing so you only gain!
As for you sounding dumb, don't be silly, you're taking the initiative to solve a problem, which is better than sitting around waiting for SOMEONE to JUST RESPOND TO THE OPEN THREAD, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE-kind of thing.
So ya, my suggestions would be to try a few solo threads and such to flesh your character further, show off her character until someone finds her an attractive source of cooperation between both CSs which will lead to joined threads. Otherwise scroll up a moment and click chat, find us...communcate further. Ultimately being polite about it helps, but have some sort of agression so your request doesn't end up forgotten.
My suggestion, if you have not already, speak with the Sylaris mod (whose name I forget...sorry mod!
) and talk about setting up a job. If you wanna make it in that city you're going to be a working girl!
Last but not least, as I haven't had the opportunity before, welcome to Mizahar, I look forward to future capabilities of writing with you.