by Gale Austin McCenry on August 21st, 2013, 2:32 pm
Hey Jen!
Kelvics are one of the most popular races to play, and because of this, people are constantly seeking for bond mates and bonding happens a lot. (At least I would figure it does) I was wondering if you could answer a few questions/talk about in general about Kelvic bonding and how it works.
People often go to matchmaker, say they've been looking for a mate, get a response, then boom, they are bonded. Assuming that letting it happen naturally through rp is better than recruiting OOCly, what do you think of this method? Do you hate it? Love it? Is there anything good or bad about this method that you've found over the years of watching people bond? If you didn't plan a bond at all, is it harder to rp and write out than if you had planned it?
On another note, when you've decided that you wanted to bond to a Kelvic or Kelvic to a person, what are some ways that you go about writing it? Is there key points that you emphasize that should apply to everyone's bonding story within your posts or does it completely depend on the people? Are there any tips that you can give the people who wish to write a bonding story to help them do it right?
Next, how do you suggest playing them after they have bonding? The lore says that any combination of sexes can happened, but in a male and female bond, that it can be romantic in a sense and may become sexual. Of course, that can go for any combination of genders. But is this type of romance the same as if two people fell in love, except for the bond itself, or is there a key difference that you would like people to notice and play? Is there any hidden reason that the mixed gender bonds are more prone to be sexual besides having that deep, respectful friendship? Or is it just that way? Any tips for how to write after they have bonded?
Lastly, when a bond is severed, by any means, how would you prefer people to play it? Let's say a writer decides bond with a kelvic, and assume it's a deep one, but it gets severed later, for any number of reasons. And let's say this person didn't exactly know how to have their character react to this lose. Going from the two extremes, which would you prefer: Them Overreacting and putting tons of dramatic affects and being a completely different person, doing strange things or them, or them to act like it's not an extremely huge deal, maybe play them depressed for a couple of seasons without having any major changes and such.Why? Would your answer be different if this was the first time anything traumatic happened to them or if there has been dozens of traumatic things happen to them before this point? Why or why not?
There are two ways a bond can be severed. The bond can be broken by one of the partners by imagining the bond as a rope and cutting it, and one of the two characters can die. Is there anything that causes one to be more or less traumatic than the other? Are they the same? Why or why not? Would it be different if they had or hadn't experience traumatic experiences before? If the other partner dies, and let's say the other partner isn't there when it happens, would they be able to instantly know that they died? Would it feel just like if they severed it? What if they were together in a life or death situation (Such as being attacked by a group of people) and one of them gets killed. Would the other bondmate just give up because they are in utter shock for the loss or would that loss end up being fuel to fight more? Does it depend on the person?
Well, that's all I have for now. I may or may not ask some more, because I really don't want to give any false information about the subject and/or play it wrong, so any answer would help! If I've worded something funny or whatever the situation might be, I can always clarify.
Thanks in advanced, Jen! I really appreciate it!